Дата публикации: 2017-10-11 10:38
But I 8767 m not even just talking about abusive situations: a lot of bad marriages here in Asia aren 8767 t abusive, they 8767 re just failed. Alienating. Unhappy. Some of them can be rehabilitated (it is possible, in some cases, to wind your way back from alienation, and every couple should try), but some of them really would be better off if they ended.
Dude, please don 8767 t judge my entire life based on a sentence in a post. I was talking about extra moments when I was busy, or went above and beyond at a moment she really needed it.
Because love isn’t an emotion. That fire I felt, it was simply that: emotional fire. From the excitement of dating a woman I felt like I could marry. But it wasn’t love.
I highly recommend the book 8775 The Five Love Languages 8776 for anyone interested in this subject. It 8767 s the first book I ever read to explain the phrase 8775 love takes work 8776 in a non-self defeating way. The way you express post-infatuation love varies with the person. What works for one person won 8767 t work for another, but there are clear patterns. Highly recommended.
This is why no one should get married without seriously considering the consequences, sacrifices, and pros and cons of marriage. My husband was in a marriage for 9 years to a wife with whom he knew he wasn 8767 t compatible. (They were pregnant and wanted to do the right thing by their daughter.) He did his very best to make the marriage work, but she decided she wanted out because she wasn 8767 t happy, and she left him. We met just over a year after she left him, and we have been married for 7 years now. We dated for about 6 months before we got engaged, and waiting another 9 months before we got married. We knew we were sure and we knew we were making a commitment that there was no backing out of.
I totally agree, love comes through giving to each other. I read in a book by Rabbi Tatz that there are two stages. The romantic stage which comes and fades, and the true love stage that takes a lot of work, but lasts forever
Thanks! I get annoyed when people portray Jews and Muslims as 8775 opposites 8776 , so I try to correct the image when possible. They 8767 re probably the two closest faiths in existence in terms of belief, practices, and approaches to life.
Like most Hasidic Jews (we both became religious later in life), our dating period lasted a very short time. After two months of dating, we were engaged. Three months after that, we were married.
As a Muslim girl, I felt really good after reading this post. Thank you very much.
8776 They say true love always has a happy ending, WRONG, true love never ends, it lasts forever 8776 only when we understand what true love is..