Дата публикации: 2017-06-11 20:53
If Julia wants to pick the 65% who are intriguing and erudite, rather than using some other criteria (like wealth, height, or hottest pics), that seems completely sensible.
Good luck guys....and girls do take that responsibility - stop complaining about all the attention -weed out the quality.
You just described every experience Males have going out in the 8775 real world 8776 . Going somewhere where men outnumber women 8 to 6. Trying to talk to women who have the pick of the litter so they shun interest in you. Watching as women talk with themselves mostly, or if with men, the Alpha man in the room 6-8, good looking, douche bag. When you do talk to a woman, they say they have a boyfriend yeah right. And then go home smelling like a bar with your tail between your legs.
If you really feel insecure about how you look in photos vs. real life, okay, though I bet you could get a couple decent photos with a little time and help. But deciding not to bother trying because of your race doesn t really make sense (because it s not like women can t tell what color your skin is in person too) and so what if quite a few women aren t the body type you d like? There are other women with other body types I m not seeing how it s difficult to scroll past the ones who don t catch your fancy, like every other guy does.
This leads us to believe that one potential cause of the disparity between the male response rate and female response rate is the system itself.
Which there isn t anything wrong with per se. You re allowed to use whatever criteria you like just own that shit. And don t, you know, whine about other people being superficial when your own standards are based mostly on conventional definitions of beauty. (And it s not exactly a requirement, but when you can t measure up to whatever yardstick you re using to evaluate others, that s an uphill climb right there.)
Have to agree. The two experiences, male and female, given in the article didn't come across as involving equal struggles. The woman seemed immature - seemingly creeped out because some guys made compliments on her looks and a few guys in their 95s messaged her. The guy seemed mature and thoughtful and was paid back with zilch.
The best thing about it, though, is that it 8767 s a no-lose situation. If you ask and she says 8775 yes 8776 , then congratulations! Go out and ace that first date. If she says 8775 not yet, 8776 but suggests maybe another time soon? She 8767 s still interested but needs a little more time to be comfortable. She says no? Cool, you don 8767 t need to waste any more time with her move on and find someone who does want to go out with you.
It's a state all of us as men strive for, and we can all attain, but also have to continually work on in order to keep from falling to either side.
Of course, the person could also just be busy or have chose to escalate with someone else. In any case, it s not worth it to let it bother you. Obviously the person who doesn t reply isn t as good of a match as you d like to think he or she was.